There are quiet battles many women carry—words unspoken, questions buried, wounds never voiced. One of those battles, often wrapped in shame and secrecy, is the topic of intimacy. Not just physical intimacy, but the emotional and spiritual kind—the ache to be seen, known, and loved completely.
As Christian women, we are taught to value purity, self-control, and modesty. And while these are God-honoring virtues, many of us were never taught how to heal from the shame of past mistakes or how to embrace intimacy in a holy, healthy way once we’ve entered covenant.
We don’t talk about the trauma that intimacy can trigger for a woman who’s experienced abuse.
We don’t talk about the disconnect that happens when a woman feels unseen by her husband.
We don’t talk about how broken trust, neglect, or even childhood wounds can impact how we experience closeness—even with God.
But God does.
God speaks through the silence. He knows your heart, your tears, your longing. He created intimacy not just for marriage, but as a reflection of His closeness with us.
Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Whether you’re healing from pain, seeking restoration in your marriage, or trying to understand your worth again—He’s near.
Here’s what I want to remind you of today:
- You are not broken beyond repair. Your past doesn’t define your ability to give or receive love.
- God delights in healing every part of you—including your femininity and desires.
- There is no shame in seeking help, therapy, or mentorship from trusted believers.
- You are worthy of affection, love, and safe connection—in God’s timing and His way.
Let’s break the silence. Let’s speak truth in love, pray with one another, and hold space for our healing journeys.
You are not alone, sis. You are deeply loved.
